British Identity: Feeling European or American?

My first overseas experience at a conference in the U.S. introduced me to the stark reality of cultural differences. A Finnish colleague and I were preparing to visit a nearby mall, a mile away from our hotel. This distance meant nothing to us as both of us were accustomed to traversing such distances. However, the looks we received from local drivers made us realize that we shared more in common with the Finnish colleague than the locals. This experience led me to delve deeper into the question of whether Britons are more aligned with Europeans or Americans.

From My Perspective as an American

You are right; when considering the distinct characteristics of Britons, Europeans, and Americans, there are significant differences. It is interesting to note that, despite the geographical proximity, the British may share more commonalities with Australians than with these other groups.

Europeans, especially those in Northern Europe such as Germany, Scandinavia, and the Netherlands, often feel closer to the British than they do to those from the U.S. A British person might move to Spain more frequently than to regions in Northern Europe. The stark cultural differences in terms of politics, values, and lifestyle make the comparison between Britons and Americans less favorable than that between Britons and some Europeans.

Historically, there have been moments when it seemed possible to draw parallels between the U.S. and the U.K. However, recent political trends and societal changes have brought these similarities to a breaking point. The U.S. has become more polarized politically, with a rise in intolerance in religious and personal matters, all stemming from events like 9/11. In response, the U.K. has embraced a more European set of cultural values, despite the significant impact of Brexit.

As I reflect on my personal experience, I find myself feeling more connected to European countries, including Russia and Belarus, than to the United States.

A Swedish Perspective

From a Swedish perspective, there is a clear sense of shared identity and cultural values between Britons and Europeans. Swedes, like many other Europeans, share a long history of colonization and cultural development within Europe. Unlike the U.S., which has been inhabited by European migrants for a relatively short period of time (about 300 years), the U.S. has a history of being predominantly influenced by European culture and values. This shared background creates a strong sense of connection and commonality.

Working with Europeans

Working with fellow Europeans from various countries has been an enriching experience for me. We have found common ground in support, humor, and friendship. These connections are often more robust and deep-rooted than those formed with Americans or Canadians. While I have lived in the U.S. for an extended period during my formative years, the bonds I have formed with Europeans have remained strong.

Furthermore, as an American, I have found that the shared European heritage and values offer a sense of belonging and understanding that is often lacking when interacting with people from the United States.

Ultimately, whether a British person feels more European or American is a deeply personal and multifaceted issue. It depends significantly on the specific context and perspective from which one views these identities.